to ponder

awwalan bismillah...

salam'alaik...

Allahu Allah....
mcm2 yg berlaku...
disitu..sana..sini...
kdg2 t'pk mcm mls nk pk..
mls nk update bnde2 nh...
bleh pening pale gak dok pk bnde yg xperlu nh...
lg2 klu ad yg b'canggah pndpt..

tp ble pk2 blek...
it's u who determined it..
how u manage it..
how u deal with it...
xkesah la perkara tu besa o kecik...

n...for me...
klu ad kekusutan...ianya patut dileraikn..
klu xbleh nk deal trus dgn that particular person o situation...
we should take another option..
seeking other people advice n opinion or etc..

n back to us again..
how we want to adapt it to the situation..

bak kate kwn..
xyah rumitkn keadaan..
buat keputusan gne marginal analysis..
lihat pd priority n faedah pd dri dan sekitar..
n based it on the opportunity n time..
sy tmbh stu...option.. ;)

hurm...btol3...syukran for ur help..
n sy nk highlight kn tuk dri sndr...
"xyah rumitkn sesuatu or keadaan"
itu yg plg pntg..

k..
next is about oneself..
pd pemerhatian sy slame nh...
majority..
people who teach others..
will feel down to d earth when the people they teach get better than him or her..
either better grade or understanding...

n this issue had been discussed in ma statistic class in cfs iium..
our madam told us bout her story..
while she studying,she teach others but other get a better grade...
n she claimed it always happen like that...
n it's a lil bit disturbing..

do u know how it feels?
ya..a bit frustrated n d urge feeling to stop teaching that particular person full over youself..

c...it's hurt + hard to maintain ur gud intention on smthg..
but again...mdm remind us...it's part of the test from Allah...
to c how u manage it?
in a proper manner n 'as-sabr' au straight away avoid to teach others b'coz u afraid others got better than u..

sometimes, i think...
ya...people feel they're others who better than him/her...which make that person ignore others' need on their teaching,opinion,suggestion n ideas...
n sometimes, they don't wanna teach b'coz they don't wanna...

so,
can't we link our niah/intention to the saying of the prophet,
convey to others even one ayah/sentence..

ya...i think that's da better way to cure this feeling..
even u feel there's a lot people who better than u...
when people ask smthg...especially bout ur opinion or understanding..
deliver to 'em even a sentence...
but...if u really don't hv any idea bout it...
just admit it..n suggest 'em to ask a better source..

isn't that better?

people is just one of the creatures of Allah...
we do hv wrong n right...
one who always be right can be wrong..
n one who always wrong can be right...

wallahualam...